5. Virtual Wedding Planning: Support From the Comfort of Your Home 6. In-Person Wedding Planning: Unique Support for Stress-Free Planning
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It’s the holiday season! This means a time of love, joy, and celebration, making it the perfect backdrop for a romantic proposal. If you’ve recently gotten engaged over the holidays, congratulations! While the excitement of saying “yes” is exciting, the next step—announcing your engagement—can sometimes feel like a challenge. How do you share your big news with family and friends without feeling overwhelmed by the pressure of expectations? How do you still celebrate your family traditions while also showing off your fiance and new engagement ring?
As an experienced wedding planner, I understand the balancing act of making the announcement while navigating family dynamics, holiday festivities, and, of course, the excitement of the wedding planning process. Here’s how to announce your engagement with grace, manage family expectations, and why it’s important not to rush into contacting wedding vendors just yet.
1. Sharing Your Engagement News with Family and Friends: The Right Way
Before you jump into the whirlwind of wedding planning, one of the most important steps is sharing your exciting news with those closest to you. While social media might feel like the easiest way to spread the word, nothing beats sharing the moment in person or over the phone with family and friends who will be thrilled to hear it directly from you.
Telling Family First: It’s always a good idea to tell your closest family members in person or via a personal phone call before posting the news online. Whether it’s your parents, siblings, or best friends, sharing this moment with them privately helps make it feel even more special. If a holiday gathering is already planned, consider telling them during the event with a toast or a quiet moment aside—keeping the announcement intimate and sincere.
Keeping It Personal: While family comes first, be mindful of how you share the news with extended family or friends. If you have multiple holiday gatherings, be prepared for the buzz to spread quickly. Make sure to enjoy the moment and take it all in—there’s no rush to make it a public affair right away.
Social Media Timing: When it comes to social media, consider waiting until after you’ve told your loved ones personally. A beautiful photo and announcement can be a great way to share your joy with the world, but timing matters. A well-crafted post can reflect your personality, and sharing it too soon can inadvertently leave some family members feeling left out.
2. Handling Family Expectations During the Holidays
The holidays bring together loved ones from all sides, and while it's a time to celebrate, it can also bring up some delicate family dynamics. If you’re newly engaged, you might feel the pressure of different expectations from both sides of the family—especially if they’re eager to know more about your wedding plans.
Be Honest but Gentle: If family members start asking about wedding plans—timing, venue, budget—take a deep breath. It’s okay to say, “We’re newly engaged and just want to soak it all in, so we haven’t made any decisions yet!” Or something along that line. Make sure your loved ones understand that you’ll keep them updated as things unfold, but don’t feel pressured to rush into making decisions before you’re ready.
Balancing Family Traditions: Another challenge during the holidays can be managing multiple traditions between families. As you navigate holiday gatherings, talk with your partner about how best to split time and manage both families’ expectations without feeling overwhelmed. Your engagement should be about celebrating with those you love, not about pleasing everyone else. Hold true to your traditions while also celebrating your new news, too.
3. Take Your Time—Don’t Rush Into Wedding Planning Just Yet
Once the excitement of your engagement has settled in, you might feel a strong urge to dive headfirst into wedding planning. It’s easy to get swept up in the thrill of it all, but here’s where I urge you to take a step back and enjoy the moment. Jumping right into vendor calls, venue tours, and budget spreadsheets can quickly turn a joyful experience into a stressful one.
Instead, take time to bask in the excitement of your engagement without feeling pressured to jump into planning right away. After all, your wedding is a reflection of you and your partner’s unique journey, and rushing through this process can make it feel more like a checklist than a celebration.
Consider looking at attending a local bridal expo, like Capture It Events holds regularly throughout the year, for more inspiration and to gather more insights into your vision without spending gobs of money on something you don’t really need or won’t really use!
4. Why You Need a Wedding Planner (and How It Can Save You Time and Stress)
As much as it might be tempting to start hunting for venues or contacting vendors the moment you say "yes," there’s a better way to approach wedding planning—especially if you want to enjoy your engagement without the stress. This is where an experienced wedding planner can make all the difference.
Hiring a wedding planner doesn’t just save you time; it saves you from unnecessary stress and helps you avoid rushing into decisions that might not be in line with your vision or budget. A planner can guide you through the process at your own pace and ensure you’re only making decisions when you’re truly ready.
My wedding planning packages are designed to give you the support you need, whether you’re starting from scratch or just need a little help to organize your vision. I work with couples at all stages of planning to ensure they get the most out of their budget while avoiding common pitfalls. I offer virtual wedding planning plans and in-person wedding planning and coordination packages.
5. Virtual Wedding Planning: Support From the Comfort of Your Home
If you prefer the flexibility of working remotely, my Virtual Wedding Planning Plans are a great fit for you. You’ll get expert advice and guidance without the pressure to meet in person or schedule time-consuming appointments. These packages are designed to offer tailored support, from budgeting and vendor selection to timeline creation, all from the comfort of your own home.
Key Focus Areas:
Vendor recommendations and email swipes
Budget management and wedding planning tools
Customized timeline and logistics support
Guest list cultivation and seating suggestions
With my remote support, you can begin organizing your wedding when it fits your schedule, without feeling the need to dive into the details right away. Let me guide you through the process with expertise and efficiency, so you can enjoy the planning process—on your own time. You can view the available options easily online while in your comfy leggings!
6. In-Person Wedding Planning: Unique Support for Stress-Free Planning
If you’re looking for a more hands-on approach, such as full-service planning or just need some coordinating help, my In-Person Wedding Planning Packages support you to manage every detail of your wedding, from start to finish. You’ll get 24/7 access to the private client portal, a plethora of digital planning tools inside the MEGA BUNDLE, and ongoing support from us via email, text, direct messaging, voice calls, video calls, and even in person! With the help of my team and I, you can focus on enjoying the engagement season and your loved ones while my team takes care of all the behind-the-scenes work.
Key Focus Areas:
Venue and vendor management
Budget Management
Guidance and suggestions for less stress
Detailed Day-of Timeline Creation and Execution
Wedding brand style planning
Ceremony and Reception set up
Decor rental and procurement
Newly Engaged During the Holidays
Whether you're just starting to think about your wedding or are ready to dive into the details, I’m here to guide you every step of the way. With expert planning, you can breathe easy knowing the details are in good hands. 📅 Book a FREE 45-minute video-call consultation today to start planning your dream wedding day!
7. Final Thoughts: Enjoy Your Engagement Without the Rush
Getting engaged over the holidays and beginning to share the exciting news with friends and family is truly an unforgettable moment. The joy and celebration that come with announcing your engagement can be overwhelming, and it's easy to get swept up in the excitement of planning your big day. However, while the enthusiasm is contagious, it's important not to rush into wedding planning too quickly. Take your time, enjoy the moments of being newly engaged, and savor this unique chapter in your life. After all, the wedding is just one day, but the journey to that day—and the years that follow—are what truly matter.
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When the holiday hustle has settled, and you're ready to start planning, remember that you don't have to navigate this adventure alone. Investing and collaborating with me and my team can be your greatest ally, offering expert guidance, advice, and organization. From budget management to vendor selection, timeline creation, and more, I’m here to help ensure every detail is covered, leaving you with the time and energy to focus on what’s most important: celebrating your love and looking forward to your future together. With my team at Elegant Events by Leece at your side, you can transform wedding planning from a stressful task into an exciting, stress-free experience. Let’s plan for your wedding, not debt repayment!
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